Whats worse is when you actually get a woman roleplayer in a group. There is a high chance you will have at least one person constantly thinking up ways to rape her character. Even if she is playing a male. Even after she tells him to knock it off. Even after the whole group tells him to knock it off. And this same guy will wonder why she isn't playing in your group any more. Will also be honestly confused as to why "Passive aggressive fantasy rape" might be construed as creepy.
... High chance? Either I'm very lucky, or the gamers in your area are pretty over the top. Maybe it's the system, but for some reason I'd expect that sort of thing to be more common in Exalted, not less... Or maybe I'm just discounting players like me, that'll use any character with a high appearance as a replacement for the resources background. Yeah, that's probably it. But then I don't care if the character is played by a male or female.
(The following conversation is paraphrased, as there was a lot more yelling and a short fistfight)
Roommate: "You gave my character, my MALE! character, to a group of hideous wyld mutants to be gangraped! We could've fought our way through easy!"
Me: "Yeah, but I didn't want to waste the essence and my limited flamepiece ammo in case there was something more dangerous in the ruins."
Roommate: "My character was gangraped!"
Me: "Well, maybe you shouldn't have given him a five appearance without having enough willpower to ignore my social-fu. Besides, we came back for you after we found those warstriders in the ruins, didn't we? We even got you one!"