I found something better than what I was looking for
here. It works well with THE FUTURE's 4:3 high res. mod. I'm attaching my InterfaceColors.txt if anyone wants to use it with xorgroth's skin. It makes girls with "warning blue" show again. I think he either forgot, or always checks each girl in turn summary. My message boxes aren't as pale and I used blue instead of green, with green text; i.e. walk around town's first box. As always, make a back up in case you don't like it. This colour chart made things very easy, thanks again.
I plan on making a few more changes, especially if I get around to figuring out how to edit the config.xml, but I'm more likely to add a file here and there (if I do) to use with his skin if people like. I'd feel like an ass if I offered his pack with a couple minor changes.
Edit:The InterfaceColors.txt goes in resources\interface. I wouldn't recommend it unless using his skin.