Refinement - (being written for addition in version .06 with the Farm.) Lowers with sex jobs and farm jobs. Raises with performance and social jobs.
I wouldn't name this new stat "Refinement". I know what's the intended usage here (although I don't what its level affects) and I definitely wouldn't want all sex jobs to lower it. Are there no refined prostitutes after all?
I'd think "Dignity" is a better name for the skill's intended usage in this scenario. It would also set up an easy ground for what she's willing to do in the interaction scripts, example; if you order her to give you a blowjob, a Spirit check is made if it's low enough for her to agree, and then a Dignity check is made if it's low enough for her to be willing.
Mind you, I think "Refinement" on its own is an excellent idea for a separate stat, just in a different case. Going by the definition:
1. not coarse or vulgar; genteel, elegant, or polite
2. subtle; discriminating
3. freed from impurities; purified
So it's something that should definitely be influenced by the "Princess", "Queen" and "Elegant" traits.