I've tried DA and I was not impressed. I played it only for a few hours, beginning and until you cross the bridge after The Big Battle (TM).
To me the game was completely cliche. First time you see a character you know what he'll turn out to be, well, maybe not every time, but two of them that looked like weasels to me turned out to be weasels. Plus generic story and the fact your head is wanted from the start made me do alt+f4 and uninstall. I would prefer some freedom (or at least illusion of freedom), like in Baldur's Gate. In short, DA looks forced to me.
Although I never finished Baldur's Gate, I still have saves, but problem is that I would stray away on some my quests and ignore main plot line. So I get bored of it and leave it. Then year-two later I continue where I stopped

. But at least I finished Icewind Dale and ID: Heart of Winter

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I also tried NWN long time ago, but it was somewhat like DA is to me today, more of the same. Mass Effect was fun to me. More or less good mix of RPG and action, and what's best, it's not in medieval setting, but space (finaly!!). In next few days ME2 will come out, although I'm not sure if it'll be out on both PC na XBox360, or just X360 with PC version following in next few months.
DLCs are bugging me too. Why do they expect me to pay for the game, and then next day again pay for some additional stuff to make my game complete...
I usually play MMOs, mostly World of Warcraft. It's not the best and it has it's share of issues, but at least it has open world and it's minimally instanced. I hoped to switch to Star Trek Online, but after I tried beta I'm not so sure. The game is too monotonous. Sure every MMO comes down to basic stuff, go there, kill them, come back. But in WoW at least scenery changes, in STO surroundings are also monotonous (well, it is space...). But the the thing that irks me the most is that it's 95% of the time fighting. I expected more from something with Star Trek in its name, more of exploration. With things as they are ATM I fired more photon torpedoes and phasors from lvl1 to lvl2 then they fired in whole season of The Next Generation

. Here's what I recorded few days ago, this is science class vessel. Funny thing, but it can stand the most fire
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=niT0vVOGn6ghttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XuxVaNrw47ABeside MMOs, two other games I played recently were Borderlands, it's kinda first person shooter Diablo, pretty fun, too bad multiplayer is made in substandard way on PC and Fallout 3. Fallout 3 has same problem like Baldur's Gate, I overturned every rock on the map exploring and doing side quests except the main one

, which I still haven't done

. And there are some fun mods for it, try searching for animated prostitution mod and playthings mod

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